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    Thread: You Are Not Alone, There Is Hope

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      Default You Are Not Alone, There Is Hope

      If you're a teen or a young person, and have a problem with P and MB, you are not alone! There are hundreds, thousands, and millions of teens and young people around the world that struggle with this problem. Most of them have probably never even realized that P and MB are a problem, and that by continuing to look at P and to MB they're hurting themselves more than they'll ever know!

      By just coming here you admit that you have a problem, and that you need help overcoming it. It's not going to be easy, but it will give you so much more in your life than looking at P and MB could ever give you.

      P ruins our outlook on people, and specifically women. It changes how you look at women ( I know this from experience), it'll make you look at them as just an object to fulfill your own desires, instead of looking at them as a person who is so much more than what we make them out to be when we're so focused on ourselves!

      I know you probably think that there's nothing wrong with P and MB because you're friends might be doing it, or you think "I'm not hurting anyone by doing it." The fact is you are hurting someone, and that someone is yourself, not to mention your family and friends (If they find out).

      You probably have problems in your life like depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, problems talking to girls, etc. You probably think that there's no hope for you to ever be able to actually do anything with your life. But there is hope! I'm not saying that P and MB are causing all of these things, but if they were, would you be willing to stop looking at P and MB? Well, would you? Because without first admitting that you have a problem you're not going to get any better. You first have to admit you have a problem, decide what you're going to do about it, and then do it!

      Through The Flame is a great site to help you learn more about this problem you have with P and MB, and it's also a great way to get encouragement when you need it. I encourage you to read some of those articles on this site, and then sign up and start talking to people.

      I wish you the best in whatever help you try to get to overcome this problem in your life. If you ever want to talk to me personally, feel free to add me as a friend so that we can talk about it privately.

      You are not alone, and there is hope for you!

      -Yesterday Is History

      P = Pornography / MB = Masturbation
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      "Everyone sees the new year as an opportunity for change. The reality is, every day is an opportunity for change." - Lecrae

      Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. - Matthew 6:34 NIV

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      This is absolutely excellent Yesterday. I am so glad that you are here, man. I am glad for what you said. I am glad to be here. I am so glad to read this.
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      Thanks a lot buddy, that was really useful, and very accurate, I hope it will be a step for me in the right direction ...


     

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