December challenge

[gnein]

Am I a little early on this one? Who cares! It's one of the perks of being this side of the International Date Line.

The challenge is to get through the month of December without a relapse, or as few relapses as possible. Let's see if we can't push the boundaries on this one a little.

[peanuthead]

I always like a good challenge; so i'm game.
But grrrr, i do wonder, its hardly december 1st and i'm already struggling.
What do we define as a relapse exactly-P,M,all relative?
Cheers:-o

[bass-man]

I'm in on this months challenge. Bring it on.

[gnein]

I always like a good challenge; so i'm game.
But grrrr, i do wonder, its hardly december 1st and i'm already struggling.
What do we define as a relapse exactly-P,M,all relative?
Cheers:-o

What you define as a relapse depends on your goals. Some here are only trying to quit P and still allowing themselves occasional MB, some are quitting the whole lot. So a relapse is any time you don't make your goal.

[artguy34]

What you define as a relapse depends on your goals. Some here are only trying to quit P and still allowing themselves occasional MB, some are quitting the whole lot. So a relapse is any time you don't make your goal.

Well said gnein...

We have our own definitions of relapses... and it doesnt matter cause we are all in the same scenario no matter what! For me, its P and MB...

I am in for the December Challenge... I hope to see all of us start the new year on a winning streak!

Good Luck fella's! =D>

[peanuthead]

Hey!
Ok,so now i'm laughing, but last nyt wasn't funny! Oh,thnx u guys 4 d clarificatn. For now, i'm tryn@ quit P. M hasnt rily bn a problm, i allow it occassional2 reliev d tension. Plus with 25 yrs now of being sex-less.....(thats my own doctrine),i'm a guy,the tension has to come out some way- especially more so since i'v alrdy messed up my mind so bad.

Anyways, last nyt was HORRIBLE!N i dnt even know what caused it.
I was right there at night staring like a zombie at my phone, almost sweating-fighting hard at the urge to deftly hit some keys on the browser ,n hence, relapse!~X(I didnt want to indulge M, i actualy didnt want it at all (it wouldnt b enough), instead i wanted the real fire (P).

I thot of alot of things to try2 get by, tried2 walk about abit to clear my mind, tried to study, but it just wasnt going away. I laugh now, bcos i just think in a crazy sort of way,%-( 'WHAT IS IT WITH THIS INNSANE ADDICTION ANYWAYS?!" It doesnt even make sense! Its just a few minutes of senseless indulgence that now puts me in a trouble for another three four days. (of hard guilt) I don't get me/it!LOL./:)

Anyways, i thot of the december challegne, and was definately not gonna loose out so easily, so i put the phone away and got thru the day!Woohooo!!!

*....though i did av2 finaly giv in to M at the end of the day- else would av woken with a uhmmm wet bed. NO LAUGHING AT THAT PART OKKKKKK!!!!

*5 Days P free since my relapse and sheeshhh,it feels like an eternity!
*I used to wonder y ppl make such a bid deal over getting thru 5days. I GET IT NOW!