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  1. do you all have the images in your head?
  2. Will a "reboot" make him more likely to cheat?
  3. Anger and PA - how many people have found them linked?
  4. Goals, Time Frames and Objectives?
  5. For the PAs that struggle(d) with fantasy
  6. For the PA: If You Died Tomorrow, What Would You Want Her to Know?
  7. Lack of Attraction towards SO
  8. Suggestions for my husband?
  9. Have you had a change of heart?
  10. Work on Recovery Daily
  11. How to approach this article?
  12. Withdrawals
  13. How do you know?
  14. Lack of Awareness?
  15. Is it really that bad?
  16. Think.....
  17. Why was *this* time different?
  18. Is there hope....really
  19. What did it take to make you see?
  20. Did you know what your triggers were?
  21. Participation on TTF
  22. Empathy
  23. should I be worried?
  24. TTF - how did you feel when your SO showed you this site?
  25. Why risk?
  26. LEGAL ISSUES because of P?
  27. The WHOLE truth, and nothing but the truth
  28. Using P as punishment
  29. K-9 Filter & Facebook
  30. Cracking the nut open
  31. Is it possible to overcome a PA for good?
  32. I feel guilty when I demand my SO show me his history, etc.
  33. Am I triggering my PA?
  34. Can you beat addiction without filters?
  35. What can I do to make honesty easier for my PAH?
  36. Did you know?
  37. why won't husband talk about his porn?
  38. Talk me down
  39. Accountability partner and the twelve steps
  40. Compromising
  41. How to tell if he is serious about getting help?
  42. Could somebody explain the term recovery for me please?
  43. Rewarding Good Behavior
  44. my question to the PA's
  45. Help a Cupcake out!
  46. What changes have you seen in yourself since recovery started?
  47. How does P affect your mood and how you treat you SO?
  48. You guys rock!
  49. What can your SO do
  50. P images and intimacy
  51. Room for Mistakes?
  52. What makes you think it is not cheating?
  53. "I am attracted to other women"
  54. Question about trust
  55. How do I know it's an addiction?
  56. Multiple addictions?
  57. Is Honesty needed or just an illusion?
  58. Supporting your SO
  59. Your own recovery
  60. Question to PA' in SAA (or the like) - feedback from SO's are also welcome...
  61. In the beginning
  62. Does the SO have santize the enviroment
  63. How do PA's feel that their SO's are here...
  64. Porn Images
  65. How many relapes does it take to stop
  66. SO dragging his feet on thearpy
  67. Why is the lie so important to the addict
  68. To: PAs with SOs giving the 2nd chance to change
  69. A chrysalis moment
  70. A question about addiction?
  71. Will the PA always be the SO's burden to bear?
  72. How to deal with accidental exposure?
  73. How do you make it up to your SO?
  74. Searching for the TRUTH
  75. Please consider and post your thought on this question.
  76. For the long term PAs in recovery...
  77. How long till the lies end.
  78. P and how a PA views there SO
  79. Thank You
  80. Resentment?
  81. What to Expect in Therapy
  82. Is it possable to get past this without help?
  83. Question about the lies.
  84. Advice for Parents?
  85. How do you justify P use
  86. The price of lies, the rewards of honesty
  87. Why the hesitance towards your SOs need for honesty?
  88. If PA/SA/MB is normal why the secrets
  89. How can I help my PA "friend" find the underlying issue that feeds his PA?
  90. What is he up to?
  91. Professional Sports and PA
  92. Why would someone be denied membership?
  93. I'm confused!
  94. is PA about sex?
  95. Compulsive MB
  96. Internet Filtering
  97. Support after the initial shock
  98. What would it take?
  99. Question about 12 step programs
  100. Is this true of the addictive person?
  101. Quit and relapse
  102. Addiction and choices
  103. Is he really a PA? Or is he just on the verge of becoming one?
  104. Am I a trigger?
  105. Is he genuine? Will it happen again?
  106. How come S with SO isn't enough?
  107. How can you forget?
  108. Does PA require counseling to heal?
  109. Frequency of viewing & MB
  110. A need for control?
  111. Images in your mind ?
  112. question on sexless relationships...
  113. A PA's Pain
  114. Should I know everything about his p/a
  115. Please explain how this addiction works
  116. s3x = love?
  117. has anyone really ever quit?
  118. How can a SO help there partner through PA?
  119. Sexless Relationship
  120. supporting my bf
  121. Reassurance
  122. Why continue using P when you know your partner doesn't like it?
  123. When did you realize you were a PA?
  124. Looking for advice or info
  125. Question on imagination
  126. Please read first before posting