Putting a value on saving your relationship and your self respect

[Admin2]

Dear Throughtheflame members,

I am concious that previous messages that I have made have been diluted by waffle, and hence perhaps the message has not always been clear.

With that in mind my intention is to be as objective as possible in this message. (But for those who like the waffle im going back to a similar message that was posted in the new year : Click here to read)

I have titled this thread because its exactly how I feel, and the exact reason I am supporting TTF today. This website saved me from letting the addiction take control of my life, my respect, and my marriage. Simply put, without those three things, Life would simply be pointless for me. How much was that worth to me? I could not even put an amount on it.

The reason for a slight surge in asking for donations this year, is again, due to an increase in membership, which meant we either let the site keep falling over, or we upgrade. Thanks to some very generous donations we were able to purchase an upgrade, and I promised to manage the upkeep, which I stand by today.

That said, raising approx $1500 a year just to cover costs, is not always easy. However, a select few members always do contribute, and we are extremely grateful, but what we would really prefer, is more members giving a little as opposed to a few members giving a lot!

I have also been asked by a few members to implement a monthly direct debit system, so donations can be automated. This has now been implemented and can be accessed here.

The monthly subscription option can be setup from the pull down menu on the left hand side: screenshot below-
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Thank you all for making this community what it is today, as it truly is a collective power that helps us all.

Admin2

[Crisodian]

Very moving post A2. Thanks for opening up and sharing what TTF needs.

Peace,
~C~

[dawn1952]

TTF has helped me understand what I need and is helping me get through something I never thought I'd experience -- and didn't think I could ever survive. Thanks so much. I'm happy to help.

[JenMac]

Thank You A2! I agree that TTF has been instrumental in saving my relationship as well. I know others feel the very same way! Hopefully if we can all give just a little, it will keep us going strong for all of us and those who come behind us! Thank you for making TTF possible!
Jenn