Flight to the Stars/Skies - StarPuppy Journal/Diary

[Crisodian]

Wait. Does he work under you? You said that right?

Who has seniority? Him or you? Sounds like you.

Regardless of how bad you feel, it's about business. Not feelings. You did his work for him and he wants to go to the boss with charts and graphs?

Nope. If I were you I would nip that in the bud right away. And speak your mind. I respect the men and women who work for me more when they speak up and do their job, then try to kiss my butt and fail to take care of employees in their departments.

Peace,
~C~

[Mefree]

SP, I'm going to have to second Crisodian on this.

Don't tolerate poor workers and slothful employees. They're not your children, and you shouldn't waste your time parenting them. As of now, this guy sounds like a liability to you and your employer. Fix it, and don't be remorseful about doing so. You're the boss; you have a job, and from the sound of things, you do it pretty damn well. He has a job, and would rather surf facebook and alter his assignments to where they're more "fun". Sounds like a problem child.

Speak your mind. You know as well as I do he needs to pull his weight.

[StarPuppy]

Thanks Sis and Mefree, my job is done with him, so i do not have to do anything with him anymore o:-)

[WifeOfNewLifeMan]

starpuppy-

I clicked on new posts, but I messed up and went to day one of your journal and read that you relapsed and I thought it was today. I was shocked, because you were so steady. I was going to post something, but then when I clicked back on today's post there was no relapse post. Because duh... that was Jan and not now! So, I am sorry your new guy is not great, but I am so happy you are doing well and didn't relapse like I thought.

[StarPuppy]

haha..thanks for visting my journal WONLM

the road has been tough and it will be harder as time goes on because my urges to MB are still very active

[StarPuppy]

1.15 am here..i just done watching some anime (Hitman Reborn). I wanted to see the exciting battle and how it would end up..it lasted about 2 hours of you tubing the anime *yawns*

anyway i wanted to ask all, how does one know that he is free or at least lighten by the burden of P? what if one goes into a P website on purpose but feels no arousal. has he overcome the P addiction and become a notch stronger towards becoming clean?

[StarPuppy]

Its 1st of Aug and as i end my day at 11pm(10 mins later)

I ask that God may bless us(the TTF family)so as to we PAs and SO of PAs bond together so that we may fight this evil of P and Sx addiction and keep it at a distance so that we may enjoy the warmth love of our loved ones.

I also ask Him to guide us and give us the strength to look things optimistically when things are difficult so we will not turn to the evil of P and MB where we keep relapsing into the cycle but instead seek comfort that we PA have a family(TTF) to turn to when the going gets tough.

May He also forgive us and let us start anew for those who have relapsed and trying their best despite external and both internal forces disrupting their absitence from PA and also those who handling their PA fight well also to be a better person in life with the guidance of their loved ones supporting them

Thank you Heavenly Father

Amen

[maggie]

Wow SP... that was inspirational.

You actually take the time to pray for all of us here on TTF. How generous and caring.

There is good in this world. P makes us focus on the evil and the dark side of life.

Thanks for the ray of sunshine SP.

Maggie

[StarPuppy]

I will do a quick post because i am dozing off while waiting for the washing machine to be done. I am feeling so unjustified lately, i have to be so accommodating to everyone..I give in because i don't want my father to be angry because i want to sleep early to prepare for tomorrow 12km run but i gave in because i don't want him to be dissapointed/angry (edit: i have come to think that it was selfish of me to think that way because he isn't feeling well but yet he still wants to help me with the hanging of the laundry)

I have to give in(hopefully i will get my off) my personal appointment with my girl because I have to work on the weekend which i have already booked tickets for a appointment

I have to give in to my SO because she is grumpy with work and i have to call and give her emotional support in which i wish she will do the same but she doesn't because she doesn't see the point of it. sometimes i see my buddy girl and their their r/s is so sweet. They call each other during breaks and after work to give each other emotional support and care.

I want to apply for my leave/off so i can study and excerise on my own to prepare for the upcoming Half-marathron. However my superior is rejecting my Offs because ia pllied on the days when there is excerise because he wants me to train instead of training on my own but i see it pointless because i can train on my own

[artguy34]

SP,

I dont fully understand the jist of your message, but think of how many people have it worse than you do? Then look at your own life again and try to appreciate what you do have?

Try to dwell on the positives of life. Life is too short worry about the negative things.

Keep your head up, walk tall, and be proud!

AG