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Default Too True - 12-18-2007, 12:04 AM
Porn is totally the "gateway drug" to even worse and more harmful sexual activity. I have read and known of too many people who have bought into the lie that a bit of daily porn won't hurt anything. It so destructive which is why I am so thrilled to finally find a place where we can talk about this and work towards eliminating it from our lives!
   
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Default Well said PressingOn! - 12-18-2007, 05:27 PM
Gateway drug indeed! I completely agree with what you said. A little a day won't hurt anyone, right?

NOT TRUE AT ALL!!!

I think "a little a day" is an argument by a person who doesn't want to admit it could be (or already is) a problem, but they don't want to give up their drug of choice yet.

If you are ok with destroying your relationships, killing all intimacy if you have a partner, and slowly pushing people away, becoming more and more isolated and alone, then a little a day is ok I guess.

But that person will not be me! Or you I hope


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Default 12-20-2007, 06:56 PM
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I think many times while looking for porn on the internet, a person may come across something they never originally intended to look at, and this can have a lasting and damaging effect on them.
This is the sad part, all these content are so accessible to all age groups that internet altogether can be labelled as "mature", but that won't solve the problem either because I was mature when I was caught by my wife watching porn and then I decided to give up but that's the story, ain't it? You have to be conscious and strong to keep youself from getting into those sites, thats the quote I have been following but these things popping out every now and again doesn't make things any easier.
I must admit that I am not a saint or a priest and I am not following what's been said here to its point but I know by doing that I am not being true to myself.
Occasional slips thats it guys...I know I need to cut that out as well


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