One Day

BoBo · **One Day -** 12-09-2007, 06:01 AM

Hey! I made one day. I know It's not much! But I stayed off the phone and the porn sites. Spent part of the evening with my grand daughter too. My time alone while my wife was at work was tough. That is when my dark side comes out. But I fought it off. You guys and gals are a real help. thanks BoBo

021hallows · 12-09-2007, 08:16 AM

Hi Bobo,
Your efforts are commendable, stay strong. I know that staying a full day without porn is quite difficult, but this is the first step there is still a harder path you need to tread.

Peace

Light · 12-10-2007, 06:26 PM

Hey Bobo,

Congratulations on making it one day! I challenge you to write down what it was like, and what temptations you faced and how you dealt with them. That is the kind of thinking that will help us all. Thank you for sharing your success with us, it makes us all stronger.

Light

BoBo · **heylight! -** 12-12-2007, 05:04 AM

I have to admit I failed the next day. It's near impossably for me. I guess I truely am a sex addict. I know that if I'm on a binge and had willing partner<male or female> I'd probably live out some really twisted desires. Man It is hard for me to resist. It scares me! I hope we all make it! Maybe we'll get a Christmas miracle? BoBo

Light · 05:07 AM

That's too bad BoBo, but at least you came here and were honest about it. Can you think back to what triggered you in the first place? What kind of mood where you in, what were you doing, and how can you avoid that situation in the future? Take some time to write it down for us.

If you think you are ready you might want to find a sexual addiction group that could help you more, or perhaps a counselor versed in SA. Hope to hear from you soon, keep us posted...