Need your opinion

[yvo_099]

hello everybody. well, i'm a 22 year old male and just recently (10 days ago) i went on a huge 12 hour porn binge. it was terrible really and i've felt all the symptoms described here. i'm so relieved to finally find a site that expresses what i've always felt. I actually decided to be porn free and masturbation free a long time ago and went for a year and half before my relapse a week ago (which occurred partially because i wanted to numb the pain from a recent breakup). My question is this.. it says that it's healthy not to masturbate and have an orgasm for 2 weeks and then for as long as possible. while i've felt the result and agree with the orgasm part, my question is this: is it ok to masturbate (of course without pornography) if you don't achieve an orgasm. The reason i do this is that i find that after long period without any stimulation it's very hard to last long with my first sexual encounter. Is it unhealthy to masturbate if you don't' achieve an orgasm? will it get in the way of my true recovery? i've found that when i do this often the next day i have stronger erections but don't want to continue if it's at the expense of recovering. a response would be much appreciated. thanks to whoever created this site. you've finally put in words and science what i've always felt to be true.

[richard]

I would say you did well there.. for a year and a half its quite a good figure.. don't take this as a failure. but don't get complacent as well just hang in there. you seem to have a strong will so just don't get into relationship that would end up the way it did the last time take your time and you will do well i am sure.

[george]

Originally Posted by richard

I would say you did well there.. for a year and a half its quite a good figure.. don't take this as a failure. but don't get complacent as well just hang in there. you seem to have a strong will so just don't get into relationship that would end up the way it did the last time take your time and you will do well i am sure.

you did very well son just carry on you don't have t feel down ...

[brian16]

My question is this.. it says that it's healthy not to masturbate and have an orgasm for 2 weeks and then for as long as possible. while i've felt the result and agree with the orgasm part, my question is this: is it ok to masturbate (of course without pornography) if you don't achieve an orgasm. The reason i do this is that i find that after long period without any stimulation it's very hard to last long with my first sexual encounter.

I guess masturbation without getting addicted to it is ok but don't you think this might just go on and you may start wondering again. Better visit an expert and check with him if there is anything he could do for you

[cain]

I wouldn't suggest you to masturbate for any reason, it is unhealthy and you may just get addicted to it. see a specialist that might help.