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      Default My Integrity Contract

      In an effort to provide a more complete commitment to my recovery, I drafted up a recovery contract which I have titled, "Appointment to Living with Integrity."

      I chose integrity because I feel that integrity composes many of the elements I wish to embrace in a life free from P. Integrity is defined as 1. Steadfast adherence to a strict moral or ethical code. 2. The state of being unimpaired; soundness. 3. The quality or condition of being whole or undivided; completeness.

      For me, this says a lot about the direction I would like to go and the life I intend to live. Therefore, I drafted up a contract designed to aid and remind me, in physical form, about my commitment to freedom from P addiction and my commitment to live my life in a new, better way. I printed it out and signed it, placing it in a safe place.

      If anyone finds it helpful to be utilized in their own recovery, I have attached a copy for download which you are welcome to use however you like. (It is a .doc file, but I had to .zip it due to the site's size restriction on files.) I also welcome any feedback in terms of changing wording, clarification, etc.

      Best wishes all!
      Rob
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      That's a nice idea. Thank you for sharing that document with us.
      We do not want to do the work of helping you to believe in your humanity. We cannot do it anymore. We have always tried. We have been repaid with systematic exploitation and systematic abuse. You are going to have to do this yourselves from now on and you know it.

      Andrea Dworkin, Letters From A War Zone: Writings 1976-1987

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      Good idea, thanks for sharing. I've had moderate luck with keeping it real simple for myself:

      1. don't look at P and 2. don't MB for 100 days... so far so good.

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