Why?

[johndonato]

Guys I can only speak for myself here, if it hits a cord for any of you
great, if not Its just my opinion....And you know what they say bout opinions ?

My understanding after on and off years of councelors is that I dwelled to much in the why and in the past and got hung up on Why did this happen to me, the always me song.

It gets to a point in your life that Your parents are gone and you cant blame it all on them anymore, you are now an adult and must own up to the issues you have as your own regarless of where they came from.

In the end it is you who has to deal with them, you who has to answer to your maker......No one else is punished for our sins but us !

This is all I meant when I said the Why is not as important anymore.
It is crucial to know where you came from or you will never know where you are going......! You also have to decide if you want to continue associating with people who put you on this path, and sometimes its hard since for alot of us its our family that exposed us
or let us be exposed by their ignorance.

Whats your opinion,,,, ? JD