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    Thread: Will a "reboot" make him more likely to cheat?

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      Default Will a "reboot" make him more likely to cheat?

      A question for the PAs. I'm am a bit worried that as my husband reboots his brain and resensitizes himself he will more likely to cheat. The literature I have been reading indicates that things are going well when spontaneous E's start again and the PA starts to become attracted to real people again. Although I have been through a lot with his addiction I know he has never physically been with another woman. I have no evidence of chat or web cam which I would consider cheating if he did. Right now I am choosing to believe he has not gone there. I know the P had made me feel cheated on but knowing he has never touched another is comforting. Will the reboot / no PMO process will push him toward tense situations were he would be more likely to cross a physical line? How do married PAs handle this? I know he loves me and is committed to me but I think he is nervous too. Should we be worried? Should I be? I can love and support him. I can work through all the pain this has caused me but I don't think I could handle him cheating with a person in the flesh and blood. Is it harder to remain faithful while trying to recover? Answers? Advice?
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      In my own experience as a PA, cheating is not more likely to happen after quitting p. In fact, looking at p is what made me look at women more and fantasize about them. So stopping p, in the long run, should have the opposite effect. Unless you do not trust your husband, I see no reason to fear him cheating on you at this time.

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