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Welcome to TTF Stillinlove. You will find many compassionate people here who understand what you are going through. I'm glad checking the board helps you in your recovery. Keep coming back!

Hello everyone. I'm new here.I enjoy doing somethng everyday for my recovery. I check this site in the AM and then in the evening.Since I am on both sides, my husband and I enjoy the couples site and discuss what has been written in posts and in articles.I have found over the years for myself, and from having sponsored many people, that if a day is skipped, then another day another excuse/reason arises and that day is skipped, then subtly everything becomes more important then maintaining recovery.We did P and/or MB everyday, more then once a day for hours at a time, and as someone married to a recovering P, I need to practice keeping the focus on myself, reminders for what I need to do to alleviate any fears that arise. That is my 'co' trying to rear it ugly horns. When he was active I spent alot of time trying to maintain my sanity, I mostly felt sad and wanted to hear what others were doing to find happiness in their lives.