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[angtnt]

well I don't know how to say this but I gave up the password to tnt.
I haven't casught him looking at P.
I thinkk he can do this without cheating I have felt more loved in the past couple days.. He's been nicer to me and more caring toward me but then I havbe to think maybe he's being nice because I gave the pass word to him

[rosie]

/:) Change the password and take it back?

Him being nicer to you because you gave him something (so he can act out) is called 'manipulation'.

ma·nip·u·la·tion n.Shrewd or devious management, especially for one's own advantage.

[IN NEED OF HELP]

Just because you gave him the password, doesn't mean that is why he is treating you better. I am saying this, just so you dont be freaking out about something that may not be happening.

But with that said, I don't understand as to why, he would want the password in the first place. If I was you, I would change it, and not give it to him, unless he really needed it real bad.

This way, not only will he not have a chance to do anything that will mess up his recovery, but it will also give you back a little more peace of mind.

This was just my thought, but to be honest, HE does not need to have the password at ALL

[JenMac]

Hey Ang!
For what purpose did he need the password? I think that is what you both need to determine. And how are you going to move ahead with this together?
It is important that you learn to work at this together as this really affects you both. So what are you both prepared to do to ensure that you get what you need out of this situation? That is what you need to decide! Discuss it between yourselves and come to some sort of compromise that works best for both of you! That is the ultimate goal!
All the best Ang!
Jenn