hi so trouble

[angtnt]

i did not get much of a welcome in the welcome area only jenn responde thank her for that i am feeling a little used and not loved the pass few days seem better but it rarly lasts more then that i luv my so very much and want to help him succeed this time but i need your help here at ttf i know very little about pa if someone can find the time to respond i would really like that thank you

[stillandagain]

folks here are very responsive and supportive, but I have found that I need to do the work. I don't "expect" responses, but am very pelase when they come.

You are in the right place. TTF is a Godsend to me. I will hope that it is for you, too.

Just come here and share your heart and soul and gut and feelings. Post. Read.

Hoping on your behalf,
Stillandagain

[JenMac]

Hi angtnt!
I am sorry you are feeling so down right now! Unfortunately there are many of us here who have experienced what you are experiencing.
Ang, I want to tell you that you need to look after yourself right now. You need to care for yourself and to do some thinking about what you can do to make yourself feel better during this traumatic time. Setting boundaries for what we will accept in our lives can help us to feel a little more in control of our destinys.
Also Ang, once you have determined what it is you will accept, you need to determine what your needs are, and learn to speak up for these needs with your H. He needs to know how this has affected you, and so it is suggested that you write him a letter expressing all that you are feeling as a result of his addiction. I found that to be very helpful for both my H and I.
Remember Ang, you didn't cause this, you can't control it, you can't cure it, but you can learn to cope. That is why you are here!! To learn to cope!! And there are many here who can help you with that!
I am wishing you all the best as you begin your journey here Ang!
I think it is great that you are here together!!
Remember, take care of YOU!!
Hugs!
Jenn

[Mrs Black]

Hi angtnt

Sorry that you didn't get many responses. I am fairly new myself and almost feel a little like I don't have much to offer in the way of advice. I am getting more comfortable on the site by the day, though, so feel I can respond.

I am so sorry that you have to be here because of what you are going through - but pleased that you have found this site - it is helpful in so many ways.

Read through the journals and discussions and ask questions wherever you can and want to.

Welcome to the site.

Angel blessings.

[rosie]

Hi Ang, are you Tng's partner? I ask because your writing style, punctuation, spelling, tone, etc is identical and so is your complaint. If i was paranoid i'd think it was him! \m/

Anyway, welcome to the forum (again).

[angtnt]

No it's me He has been helping me to learn this site and doing the typing I am doing it onn my own now. I am new to this I don't know what to write. I have been reading some of the other post

[angtnt]

Hi Ang, are you Tng's partner? I ask because your writing style, punctuation, spelling, tone, etc is identical and so is your complaint. If i was paranoid i'd think it was him! \m/

Anyway, welcome to the forum (again).

I wrote in my post that things are getting better. He is sticking to his plan.I have used K9 on all the computers here at home.I hope our weekend is a good one

[angtnt]

Hi Jenn thank you for your concern Tnt was helping me with my Journals I think I can handle it on my own now I am learning to get around the site I am goona go read a journal or two of other SO's and see were that takes me

[JenMac]

HI Ang!
I am glad that you are figuring things out and that you are doing some reading. As you become more comfortable on the site, you will feel more comfortable expressing yourself and asking questions. I think it is great that you are here and looking for healing through all of this. I also think it is great that you have installed filters!
I too, hope you have a good weekend Ang!
All the best to both of you!
Jenn

[angtnt]

hey I am glad You are helping me thru this journey.. One thiung I have noticw sence three is no P tnt has been crabby latelyHe seems to be more on my buttt than usual.
C ya later
Ang