Sixth Sense

[stillandagain]

anyone else have an intuitive sense of your PA's behavior?

so often I cannot shake it
and I am usually right on target

its pretty uncanny
and very unnerving

[StollenHeart]

YES!!!
Totally!

I can tell when something is wrong or he is lying or hiding something. Especially if he is over cuddly, or sucking up. He will all of a sudden say "why dont we go do this...?" the "this" will be something I have always wanted to go do or see that he never wanted to before lol.

I would rather he just tell me what he did than be so suspicious. It is really frustrating and annoying. And then I usually end up acting like a detective to see if I can figure out what he did.

SH

[fragileego]

YES. "Funny" how obvious it seems to me that something is up, and yet my H seems to think he's hiding his behavior just fine. I've even asked him whether he's been watching P and he has looked me in the eyes and lied to me; when I later checked his computer, my suspicions were confirmed. It's heartbreaking to be lied to, but I've learned to trust my intuition, and if something seems up, it most likely is.

[waterlily327]

Yup! And, I never trust it because I want to give him the bennefit of the doubt. I am glad to know I am not the only one who has those feelings...and who is often right about them! Actually, always right. Strange thing is, in a long distance relationship, I have no idea how I just know sometimes even when we haven't seen each other in weeks. I just get that gut feeling, and when we talk sure enough it comes out. Freaky...and glad to know I am not alone. Guess I need to trust my feelings more!

[Rockinastorm]

As Waterlily's PA SO I think its funny that I actually read this post only 1/2 hour after her. She does know when I am having a rocky time.. and not just with PA but with pretty much everything. I am so glad that she has this sort of psychic timing. It has saved me many times and helped me open up when I didn't reach out to her when I needed it.
I wish I could say it works in reverse too. I honestly hope that I can become as in tune with her as she is with me. It is something I am working towards through my battle with PA and my struggle to be able to be there for her.

[Hopeful]

Yes stillandagain! I have always had a sort of intuition and for a few years he convinced me that what I was feeling wasn't true and there was no basis for it.
This last year though, he trusts my "feelings" as much as I do. So I would say we are all pretty good at knowing something is up or out of wack. Always trust your gut I say!

[feelingbetrayed]

YES!!!
Totally!

I can tell when something is wrong or he is lying or hiding something. Especially if he is over cuddly, or sucking up. He will all of a sudden say "why dont we go do this...?" the "this" will be something I have always wanted to go do or see that he never wanted to before lol.

I would rather he just tell me what he did than be so suspicious. It is really frustrating and annoying. And then I usually end up acting like a detective to see if I can figure out what he did.

SH

I am exactly the same way. I know something is up if he's being too nice or sucking up. Thats pretty much how I knew he was lying to me the last time.

[Mrs Black]

Yes....and your heart just sinks into your boots and the nausea erupts in your stomach....

I am a HUGE advocate of the sixth sense - I think that's the Universe's way of letting you know to get ready, brace yourself - another opportunity to strengthen yourself is approaching......even though I know this, it doesn't make it any easier to deal with. On a positive note - I try to see it as though my strong connection to my H makes that sixth sense so sharp - and it's that strong connection that keeps me by his side.

I truly believe that what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

Angel blessings.