What should a recovering PA expect?

[Charly22]

I'd like to get a collection of thoughts and history and experiences, good things, bad things, all things on the following:

A PA commits to recovery....this pa is married...this pa lied and hurt his spouse in the past....but is commited to no longer allowing p to control him. What would you say to that pa, new to recovery, to expect that his spouse is going to experience in the AFTERMATH? What will that pa witness out of his spouse?

[2frustrated]

A good, healthy, messy, difficult growing period.

[grasshopper]

I'd like to get a collection of thoughts and history and experiences, good things, bad things, all things on the following:

A PA commits to recovery....this pa is married...this pa lied and hurt his spouse in the past....but is commited to no longer allowing p to control him. What would you say to that pa, new to recovery, to expect that his spouse is going to experience in the AFTERMATH? What will that pa witness out of his spouse?

The best collection of thoughts, history, experience, etc that I can think of is in the collective journalling of people like Charly, WONLM, JenMac, Rosie, Aloevera et.al....