The Emotional Rollercoaster

[JenMac]

Yay for those moments! Isn't it wonderful to be able to feel that connection when we are in the midst of this? It truly does mean something and I am glad you are honouring that moment. My counsellor told me that I need to remember to find time to step away from dealing with the difficult things ti foster the relationship. That is so important, I believe.
We too can find the magic in a roaring campfire, sunsets and stars. Nature has a truly awesome power!
Glad you had those moments LS!
HOpe you have more today!
Jenn

[lostsoul]

Phew! We, not just me are having another good day! There are so many reasons to be cheerful and having the engery to engage in some discussion here is one of them.

Yesterday afternoon we were back at out fav. place and took our curious, adveturious cat with us, on his harness, of course:) Being able to talk to each other rather than snipe and cry, really makes me value our friendship as much as our relationship. There was one potential incident last night. A name that was mentioned while we were channel hopping on the tv. I laughed out loud and comment on synchronicity, finding it amusing for me, knowing it would be painful for him. He blushed and thanked me for my laughter, saying that he thought my ablilty to laugh, rather than be snippy and/or cry meant so much to him. I think it was another healing moment, being able to hear a name we both associate with causing pain and not react, but responding to life's little ironies with humour and grace.

One day at a time, I am not only learning to let go, I can feel myself letting go. Perhaps I am moving out of my pain, even if it is just a little<:-P(bighug)