You think about WHAT?!

[Daniel]

And some people think there are no "victims" in this mess. Where are their heads?

CF

Unfortunately, buried in the sand of rationalizations...

[debv]

Daniel, sand's not where I'd say their heads are buried, personally, but I'll leave it at that. :D

FB's story is sad and heartbreaking, but interesting at the same time. I can't express correctly what I'm trying to say, but the fact that her PA was involved in the picture with a real woman makes the impact stronger. That said, all P involves real women having real s3x, and none of us or our PAs can or should pretend differently. Those awful acts that DW was watching that make my skin crawl and make me want to never leave the house for fear of not being able to tell who's having sick fantasies like that about me were all performed on real women, by real men. I think that society forgets this fact when it diminishes the negative impact of P. FB's situation differs primarly because that particular P drives the reality home. (Not to diminish the impact of this truth, my point is we all should react to all P the way FB is reacting to this, not that she should react more lightly to it because it's "just P". There is no "just P".)

/rambling.