manipulation....

[WifeOfNewLifeMan]

junebug-

I don't know of any help for the blackberry other than what's already been said. I was just curious if he must have a blackberry for work?

[Junebug1944]

junebug-

I don't know of any help for the blackberry other than what's already been said. I was just curious if he must have a blackberry for work?

its not for work, but more because of it. he's gone for long periods of time without access to banks or computers so in order to pay bills and email he needs it.

[chewy]

Hi Junebug. Reading the journals/posts of the SOs on here has been a great help to me, including yours. I have an Itouch and there is an app that keeps me accountable to not just me, but my wife can view any questionable sites I have visited. As for the blackberry, I would contact your provider and see if there is some sort of filter you can purchase for the internet on it. I too have spent years lying to my wife and only recently has everything been put on the table. The only way you and your SO will heal is with trust. I wish you guys the best of luck and I look forward to following your journey.

[Brooke_M]

My husband told me that he uses his phone for P too. It's easy, quick and can be done anywhere. I called our provider to get the Internet blocked which was no problem at all. The only thing about it is that when I checked his phone to make sure it wasn't working, a message popped up saying it "had been disabled, but to press continue if you were the administrator and wanted to access it anyway." Not much help....