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    Thread: Useful Books

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      Hey I was wondering if anyone has read any good books on the subject of pa and being in a relationship with a pa? It would be good for us to share these books with each other seeing as we are all always looking for more information. Starting a list of books that were helpful you maybe helpful to others as well.
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      Hello Loving_FGL,

      A friend of mine is a counselor who specializes in se&ual addictions. She recommended this book to me. It just came out in September and is backed up with many years of research and experience. " Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How partners can cope and heal" by Barbara Steffens and Marsha Means It offers a very therapeutic alternative to the typical coaddict/codependent model. It's based on emotional trauma. It's a excellent book!


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      LFGL,

      When I discovered my H's addiction, I bought:

      "Confronting Your Spouse's Pornography Problem"
      Rory C. Reid MSW, Dan Gray LCSW

      "The Porn Trap: The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by Pornography"
      Wendy Maltz, Larry Maltz

      I also ordered the book terawave suggested but have not started reading it yet. I found "The Porn Trap" really helpful and useful and I am looking forward to reading "Your Sexually Addicted Spouse".

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