Hello all

[jaxsun]

Hello all..I am 33 and have been dealing with this for most of my life. While there were times where months would go by and I thought I was free it would pop back up. As of recent I have told my wife about my problem. She has been very supportive in help me get free from this. Looking to stay strong and find encouragement & help. God bless

[JenMac]

Welcome to TTF Jaxsun!
I hope you will find TTF to be helpful to you in your recovery. There are many wise and caring people here who will support you in your efforts to become P free and in lasting recovery.
I invite you to start a journal in the recovering journal section. Getting our thoughts and feelings out goes a long way to assisting us on our way to healing. I also encourage you to share TTF with your wife, as there are many couples here together working their way through this. It is so helpful for we SOs to have someone to share with who understands what we are going through. Such a blessing for both members of the couple.
Jaxsun, there is a men's chat on Monday nights at 9 pm EST, as well as a couple's chat on Wednesday night 8pm EST. I encourage you to check into either or both of those.
Hope to see you here often Jaxsun!
All the best in your recovery!
Jenn

[waterlily327]

Hi Jaxsun, welcome to TTF! You are in a great spot to help launch your recovery. I have a few suggestions to help start your recovery.

--Get rid of all p*** you have on your computer, videos, magazines, etc. Anything you keep is just temptation that will harm your recovery
--Get an internet filter and give someone you trust control of the password (I hold the password for my fiancé, which gives both myself and him peace of mind!)
--Read through recovery journals to see what worked and what hasn’t for other PA’s
--Read through SO journals, to get a better understanding of how your wife may be feeling and how you can support her recovery
--Start your own Recovery Journal so others can know your story and help support your recovery
--Tell your wife about TTF and encourage her to read through some of the material here…many SO’s, myself included, have found valuable support systems here

Good luck with your recovery Jaxson! You have taken a huge step forward by coming here and coming clean to your wife. Keep up the good work!