Hello

[Seven]

I am new. New to this forum, not new to p addiction. My SO of 15 years is a p addict and we have been dealing with it for most of our relationship. After the latest discovery of his lies and his sneaking and hiding -- just what lengths he will go to to get his fix -- the failure of his "promise" to change ... I am here. And I admit I am lost. :(

[JenMac]

Hi Seven!
Welcome to TTF! I am sorry for your pain and heartache but I am glad you are here to find support and comfort.
I encourage you to start a journal in the SO journal section so that you can get your feelings out. There is a healing that can come with that Seven.
It is a difficult place you find yourself in. I know it is so very hard but I also know that you can find healing here. TTF has been a Godsend to me in my healing and also to my H Mac's recovery. I hope you will find it the same for you!
All the best!
Jenn

I am new. New to this forum, not new to p addiction. My SO of 15 years is a p addict and we have been dealing with it for most of our relationship. After the latest discovery of his lies and his sneaking and hiding -- just what lengths he will go to to get his fix -- the failure of his "promise" to change ... I am here. And I admit I am lost. :(

[Seven]

Thank you for the welcome JennMac. I am actually looking forward to starting my journal.

[Rockinastorm]

Hi Seven,

I wish you a belated welcome to TTF. I am sorry you have not received a warmer welcome here.. that is most unusual. You mentioned that you feel lost, and I think you will at least find some of the answers you are seeking here on TTF. We have a GREAT Partners Forum section of the site. There are many SOs, including my own, who form a wonderfully active community here. I hope that you get settled in here and when you are ready, start a journal so that others can support you in your struggles. Also, don't be afraid to talk to the PA's here. We are here because we want to change and try our best to help each other through this. Maybe we can answer a question or two? who knows?
Anyways its nice to meet you and I hope that we hear more from you soon.
Wishing you the best,

Rockinastorm

[HopefulsRock]

Hello Seven and welcome to TTF... I"m sorry that your life has taken this turn but there is hope and when he becomes aware of all the damage it causes your relationship can come out the other side of this addiction with an even stronger faith and love of one another!

Best wishes for a successful and strong recovery for both of you...

[IN NEED OF HELP]

Seven
Welcome to TTF
As a PA I am sorry that you are here. but I am glad you are, so you can start healing from the pain that your SO has caused you. I do know your pain, because I do see the pain I caused my SO because of my actions.

I do hope that you find the help that you need here at TTF. It is the best place to be at for help. there are so many wonderful SO here, that are willing to help you through this.

I only hope that your SO sees the importance of getting this addiction out of your lives, and he comes here for help with his recovery