New SO and lonely

[SoSick]

Hi everyone. A new SO who has been married for a short time to a PA. I am just very lonely with no one to talk to about PA as my H does not want to talk about it though he does acknowledge it's wrong and trying to change. I don't really want to reveal much about myself here, or talk much about my personal situation. I'm mostly here to just talk about my own feelings and ask questions as I am very lonely and am sick of always looking for advice and getting the same "You're crazy/P is fine etc" nonsense when none of it is true.

I guess what I need most is just people who feel what I feel who can offer freindly words of encouragment. I'm very depressed most of the time and tired of only having my own paranoid head to talk to. So...thanks for having me

PS. Just call me SS :)

[stillandagain]

Hello, SS. I am brand new here, too. What ttf has helped me the most with is reading others' stories and threads and posts (SO's and PA's) and realizing that not only am I not alone, but that there are others who's feelings and experience have either been so similar to mine and/or who "get" this issue and I don't have to back up and explain myself.

Welcome! I hope that you find ttf to be companionship for you on this journey!

[Crisodian]

SS,
Welcome to TTF. I am the SO (wife) of a PA who has been in recovery since 2009. You will find lots of support here from others who have walked this same path. Most of us find we feel very isolated once we discovery PA in our lives. It really does help being able to connect with others who share this journey.

Find peace,
~C~