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    Thread: 10,000 hours...

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      [A big apology to johnny5, who had already taken this 10,000 hours angle in his journal. I have just started reading 'Outlier' and took this idea from the book to illustrate just how I came to master a useless habit, and how I so badly want to master something worthwhile in the next 10,000]


      ...an apparent standard for what it takes to master something completely - 10,000 focused hours. After burning through 10,000 hours of porn in my misguided little life, I would like to remind myself, in public, how I have misused these hours; and that I am finally...and I mean finally ready to adopt a better spending plan.

      I want to purchase savvy social skills, a sound body and mind, and lead the pack in my profession. This isn't cheap you know, that will set me back a cool 10,000. [sets 'sober calculator'] So here is to the next 10,000 hours spent, for myself, and for you. (hat)
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      Ten thousand hours, eh? Well, you've come to the right place to kick that off. This community is full of people and resources that'll get you to that mark and beyond quicker than you might think possible. Best of luck to you, welcome and let any of us know if you need any help along the way.
      We do not want to do the work of helping you to believe in your humanity. We cannot do it anymore. We have always tried. We have been repaid with systematic exploitation and systematic abuse. You are going to have to do this yourselves from now on and you know it.

      Andrea Dworkin, Letters From A War Zone: Writings 1976-1987

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      Presson,

      Ten thousand hours. I agree, that's a lot of life to waste. I am sure I have wasted those same hours on porn. And I think it is worse than wasted. It is time spent actively destroying my integrity and my relationships with my wife and family, with my friends, with God. The good news is that recovery is possible. Welcome to the journey.

      Teemo

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      No need to apoligize- It's encouraging to hear I'm not the only one who wants to balance-out their life after so many lost hours...

      I think you're on the right path. Keep on fighting.

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