Hello from new SO

[Hibiscus]

Life got in the way and I let this get buried without some replies.

Cris,

Emotional vomit...been there, done that! Yikes! :-o

Thankfully, for some reason I have handled things differently this time. That's not to say I'm never guilty of saying things I shouldn't have, but I've been much better about expressing my hurt instead of just attacking out of anger. Progress at least.


Rosie,

Thank you for the welcome from a fellow blossom, lol. :D

I've followed your and HRs threads. What a ride you have both been on! I wish you both peace whatever direction each of your paths takes you. >:D<


Mike,

My head knows it's not my fault (heck, he was doing this long before I met him), but your heart and emotions take you in the wrong direction sometimes. It's hard not to take it personally and even harder to believe it will ever finally be the last time.

But I will say that this is the first time he has been willing to take full responsibility for it - the first time I have felt like HE wants it out of our lives. This is also the first time he has said he feels much better about himself. A shift in thinking?

It's been 3 months. Hoping that continues and that next November we will be counting in years. :)


Thank you to all for the warm welcome!