Hi all. i just thought i would drop a line to say good-day and i hope that i may get some insight to my pa. My SO has been a member on here for a while, and thing have been getting worse in our everydsy life because i have a problem...
Hi all. i just thought i would drop a line to say good-day and i hope that i may get some insight to my pa. My SO has been a member on here for a while, and thing have been getting worse in our everydsy life because i have a problem...
Cupcakemomma (01-11-2011), JenMac (01-09-2011), mell (01-08-2011), NewHope10 (01-08-2011)
Welcome to TTF! I hope you can gain some insight from reading the articles, posts and journals on here. I know I have. Since you're here, I see that as a positive step forward.
Matthew 5:28 (King James Version)
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her, hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Romantic love looks for what it can get; unconditional love looks for what it can give.
JenMac (01-09-2011)
I'm so glad you are here. Thank you for taking this step. I'm proud of you and I love you.
Sometimes I lie awake at night and ask why me? Then a voice answers nothing personal, your name just happened to come up. -Charles M. Schulz
Awww!!! Hi there Mr.Cupcake? :) :) Welcome! Don't be scared, we are here to support you!
Well done on taking such a big step. I hope that you get what you want from this forum :)
Good luck to you!!
Cupcakemomma (01-11-2011), JenMac (01-09-2011)

Welcome Noctemmyth,
Glad to see you here. This is a great place to get help / advice. It has really helped to steer me toward better recovery.
I would advise you to read some of the journals here and start your own. You will get tons of support and guidance.
You have a lot going for you. The only way to get better is to admit to the problem and work on it. It will be hard, but the end result is so worth it.
I am on the site daily, if you need to, please feel free to PM me. I'm always happy to help out wherever I can, and that is a step in my own recovery. There is no judgement here, only support.
Hoping to hear more from you. Best wishes.
Last edited by mell; 01-08-2011 at 11:50 AM.
-Mell
"Victory comes only after many struggles and countless defeats. Yet each struggle, each defeat, sharpens your skills and strengths, your courage and your endurance, your ability and your confidence and thus each obstacle is a comrade-in-arms forcing you to become better..... or quit. Each rebuff is an opportunity to move forward; turn away from them,...avoid them, and you throw away your future." -Og Mandino
Don't give up. Don't ever give up.
Jim Valvano
Cupcakemomma (01-08-2011), JenMac (01-09-2011), Kathy (01-09-2011)
Hi Noctemmyth!
Glad you have joined us here. It has been a great experience for me and my H to have so much support from so many caring people here on TTF.
Welcome!!
~~Hopeful
When the world says, "Give up,"
Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
~Author Unknown
Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. ~Paul Boese
Your beliefs don't make you a better person....your behavior does
Hi N...
Welcome to TTF! This is a great step you have taken. You will find so much support and encouragement here - and you will see that you are not alone!
All the best to you!
Cupcakemomma (01-08-2011), JenMac (01-09-2011), Kathy (01-09-2011)
thank you for the encouraging words everyone
Cupcakemomma (01-11-2011), JenMac (01-09-2011)
Glad you have decided to join us here. I have been here a week. I have gotten great support & understanding from everyone I've met. Your not in this alone, we are here for each other. There are plenty of resources here to get you started. Take advantage of them & you will see how P affects us & our SO's. I'll pray for your recovery. Again welcome to the TTF Family.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage - Lao Tzu (Thanks FairyG) Hate the sin, not the sinner
Cupcakemomma (01-08-2011), JenMac (01-08-2011)


Noctemmyth
I just wanted to welcome you to our community of recovery.
I am a PA 9+ months P free and I can't tell how important the support of the great people here have been to me. Like others have said the resourses here are endless, grab on to all you can.
Keep an open mind and don't be afraid to share stuff. No doubt whatever is on your mind, someone here has had the same.
Anyway like the others have said, you have definately come to a great palce
Good luck my friend
Mac
Cupcakemomma (01-08-2011), JenMac (01-09-2011), Kathy (01-09-2011), mell (01-08-2011)