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[IN NEED OF HELP]

Welcome noctemmyth

So glad to see you here. Just by you being here, it shows that you are aware that you have a problem. It is so nice to see others seek for help. I have only been here for a little over a month, but i will say, i am so encouraged by the love and support that i get here. You also will see that you are in a great place. Once we see that we have a problem, and we take the action to get help, you will feel so much better about yourself. You are here with many who have very similar issues that they are going through. We are not here to belittle you, or make you feel bad in anyway. we are all just here to support each person who became addicted to a very sick and family ruining thing. Please take the time to read others are going thru in there struggles to rid themselves from P. Also read the journals of SO,s, this way we can see just how much pain us men put our ladies thru, just because we want to sit at the computer and look at other women, who would have nothing to do with us if we was to meet them in person.

Again i say welcome, and I AM so glad that you made the first step by coming here.

Good luck in your recovery

I dont think i can ever call you Mr cupcake thou...LOL

[HopefulsRock]

Noctemmyth Welcome to TTF and I must say that you're not the BF myth any longer and I wish you all the best! It's a big step coming on here for help and insight and I congratulate you on making it! This site has become a friendly and helpful community for me to hang out in, learn and grow from. We're all rooting for you and here for you and I must say you already have a great supporter in CupcakeMomma so don't be afraid to share your thoughts with her because she'll be your strength for a while so that you can be hers down the road!

[Kathy]

Why hello Mr. N/CCM's man!!!! Welcome...I'm glad to see that you are here, you will receive alot of support from both groups. My 'h' (Chasman62) and I are soooo grateful to TTF and we trust through not only both groups here but with CCM, you will find your path to your new road to recovery!!!

Wishing you only the best - a strong will, strong heart and strong arms for hugging!

[Cupcakemomma]

Dear Noc,
I love you with all my heart. You have always meant the world to me and probably always will. I need you to know though, that this addiction is eating away what remains of the man I love.
There is so little I can do to help if you refuse to make an effort to get started. You options and resources are limited only by the amount of yourself you are willing to dedicate to recovery. The only thing required is for you to want and actively seek help.
Please look inside your heart and ask yourself what you want and what you are willing to do to get it, because continuing to hang in limbo will only further the destruction of both the wonderful man you REALLY are and the relationship I share with him.

P.S. This has been stuck in my head all day:
I fell right through the cracks, now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out I'll be giving it my bestest
And nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some.