First Post

[strong as I can be]

Hello all,

This is my first post and to be honest I am scared. I never truly believed that I had this big of a problem until recently. After last night I just can't take it anymore. I've begun to hate myself, which has spilled over into every other part of my life. My father had a problem that he never faced and I swore I would not end up the same way, but I am heading down that same path now. But, I believe this to be a big step in the right direction, and I am quite happy to have found this place. I look forward to getting to know everyone. Thanks

[astander]

Hi there and welcome. I agree that you are taking a step in the right direction, and you don't have to repeat the past. Sounds like you are facing it, so that is significant.

there are lots of great resources here, as well as many people who are very knowledgable and have experienced what you are experiencing. It's remarkable how everyone has a different story, but the patterns are mostly the same.

Just one day at a time, and remember that you're not alone (not by a long shot).

Sarah

[boris]

Welcome,

It's okay to be scared. The revelation that we are addicts, is scary, but it is not insurmountable. Congratulations in taking the first big step in getting clean. We're here to support you in any way we can. We've been in your shoes and are still working to be better men and women each day. Consider starting a journal. It helped me immensely.

All the best,
Boris

[theotheri]

Don't be so hard on yourself brother. You are human and fallable just like everyone. Take some time to understand the problem that you feel you are facing however you define it and set yourself some goals to overcome it. You can do it! It's not that hard and be kind to yourself!

Hello all,

This is my first post and to be honest I am scared. I never truly believed that I had this big of a problem until recently. After last night I just can't take it anymore. I've begun to hate myself, which has spilled over into every other part of my life. My father had a problem that he never faced and I swore I would not end up the same way, but I am heading down that same path now. But, I believe this to be a big step in the right direction, and I am quite happy to have found this place. I look forward to getting to know everyone. Thanks

[NewHope10]

Hi Strong as I can be (SAICB for short :D).

I am an SO (wife) of a PA - and I am very pleased you found TTF! Yes...this is a good place to be and it really is a good step in the right direction. Good for you!

I hope that you are able to read through the boards - and especially the journals. Ask questions too! Perhaps you might want to start a journal here yourself. I know it is very helpful for both the PA's and SO's.

Yes - one day at a time is so important. Sometimes...we need to take it "one moment at a time" too. And that's okay.

Be strong, SAICB! Keep coming back!