Very Excited To Be Here

[spalmer69]

Hi Scott! Glad you're here! It's a bit belated, I know....

I'm a SO of a PA (sonoma, but he's not active very much these days) and am so glad we found this site. It's been, as CF said, a non-judgmental, supportive place, and I have learned so much since I have been here. Down the road, perhaps your wife would be interested in poking around the site as well?

Looking forward to getting to know you better...

S'ette

Thank You Kindly S'ette :)
I took a few days off (from here, not my journey haha) but am back at work tonight so I needed to check in. I pray intensely that I can get her here eventually. I just need to give it some more time, as Ive said. I just know if I do it right now it's going to seem as if Im just trying to convince her Im really working on things. I want to establish the FACT that I am. So she has no questions when I approach her about the site. We are still going through an up and down communication. She'll text me a few times every few days and then disappear for a few. I miss our constant texts to each other and I could communicate with her all day long. Not in a needy kind of way. Its just that when we talked or flirted by texts...it was fun and something I cherished. Its kind of depressing not to have that around anymore. I just let her control the frequency of communication. I refuse to be up in her face and cell phone like I did during the first separation. I simply let her text me when she feels like it although I do leave her a nightly..."Goodnight. I Love You." email. Im just real bummed right now. So much I miss about her. My step kids too for that matter. I really was doing well after the first separation but guess she just wasnt ready to believe things. I understand its hard for her though. Lordy...Im sorry. I did NOT mean to leave such a long off topic reply :) been a rough night
Thank You!

[spalmer69]

Welcome Scott!

Anyone who finds his site finds relief. Not a cure or the answer to their problem. But Support and a sense of belonging.

No one judges. You get sound advice and you choose what works best for you and your SO.

I've been busy getting some pre-winter chores accomplished but we'll have time to catch up. Meanwhile. Read, learn, gain strength and chart a new course.

Glad you're here.

CF

Thanks City Fool!
I appreciate the warm welcome! :)