New here. help with voyeuristic tendencies?

[RoccosModrnLife]

Here's my story, briefly since I'm doing this at work.

Long story short, my gf has caught me looking at stuff on the computer a couple times, MBing once, and has found pictures on my computer.

I never saw what I did as a problem until the most recent time. I had read a little about P addiction and was aware of it. I really was aware I had a problem, I just never acknowledged it until now.

My particular case is a little different than many ppl here probably. My compulsive behavior has moved away from P in a strict sense, and more toward normal girls. Instead of surfing P web sites I would look at social networking sites or photo sharing sites. I would scour for a long time looking for girls doing naughty things or in swim suits or accidentally showing something.

My other problem is staring at girls in public. I ogle and stare at tight pants, skirts, etc. and sometimes go out of my way to try to sneak a peek when something might show.

I find myself repeatedly looking at a girl when I'm with my gf and she notices. I feel terrible about it and just wish I could control it. Not just when I'm with her but all the time. I don't mean to look at women as objects. I don't think of them that way, I really respect women. I just have a problem.

I've taken steps and I've made a lot of progress before really admitting I had a problem, but the things I mentioned here are the most difficult for me to get under control.

Any help or resources anyone knows about would be great.

Thanks