It's all about a good life

[Vincent]

Hello, I'm Vincent, it is not my real name by the way and I am glad to start again and hopefully be successful this time. I am 13 years old, relieved to be doing something about this problem at such an early age and I want to remove my corrupt habits. I've relapsed a lot of times and I'm serious, the urges that go inside my mind and force me to give in are very, very hard to fight. Unless you're prepared and with a high confidence that you can make it through the day without problems, then you're guaranteed to succeed - that rhymes.

My goal is to eliminate the addiction, first thing to do is to come here everyday and post. Second, write or memorize all possible triggers around that may make me give in, and last, think of all the benefits that I would receive if I clear away all the dirty, twisted memories in my head and keep on fighting the addiction. This is my first day and to all of you out there, giving me hope that I can do it, I wish you good luck and hope that you are able to break away your unclean habits.

[Daniel]

Greetings Vincent,

Welcome to TTF. You have found a perfect fit between your goal and this site.

For 13 you are amazingly focused, have your finger on the problem, and already demonstrate a vision of your personal success. That is big.

You can see what victory looks like, therefore, I believe, you will experience it.

Daniel

[Vincent]

Thanks for telling me that. I know that I have written a lot of goals for myself this start of the year but one of my main focused goals is to stop giving in to this addiction and develop a normal, healthy mind. I've already known the steps to do that and I will always be willing to stand up and try again even though I've fallen.

[rugbysteve]

Hi Vincent,
I would also like to welcome you to the TTF forums. Your resolve is great... something that I lacked at your age. Your first strategy of coming here and posting every day I think is one of the most important things you can do, and I say this from the perspective of both staying P-free from posting regularly, and from what happens when you stop; Even when you are having success its good to come and post so as to not become complacent.

I hope you can find as much help here as I have. Good luck!
-steve

[Vincent]

Thanks rugbysteve, I will work on coming here every single day to post and remind myself why I'm doing this for. For now I just feel like wishing everyone the best recovery from their addiction and you too - don't forget myself.