freedom is our right

[mansi]

i am a new member in the community.I always had very low self esteem after I started this addiction.i tried so many times to get over it.am married for 2 years.our sex life wasnt great because of lots of emotional issues.i would like to join in the combined efforts of members in the community.

[Abbie]

Well you've taken the first step by joining up, a lot of the PAs find it useful to keep a journal, found here:

Recovery journals - TTF community forums

Does your partner know about your addiction? If so, there are also journals for partners on here too. I am the wife of a PA, and both of us have found this forum incredibly helpful.

I wish you peace.

[dave42]

Good luck, Mansi! Wlecome to this site! I think just about everyone here would identify with this sentence of yours: "i tried so many times to get over it." I know I have tried many, many times. This time, it is working better (at least I've been "clean" for a number of months now!)

Let us know how you are doing, okay?

All the best,

Dave

[uniquespeaks]

Mansi, I wish you all the best. Failure is still progress unless you truly give up. I wish you and this entire community sucess.