I did a quick Google search. I picked this site because it was so well done - included sections for both PAs and their partners and had so much wonderful, encouraging and open discussions in the forums. I also like that while not overtly religious in nature, the site does not appear to squash the religious beliefs of those who post on here. It's a nice balance for a formerly devout Christian that still maintains a number of those beliefs but who no longer subscribes to organized religion.
"It's never too late to be who you might have been." ~George Elliot
Love is the rhythm of two hearts beating
Poundin' out a message steady and true
Talk to me baby tell me what you're feelin'
I know what love is
What's it to you
I was halfway through a gruelling and depressing P session, became utterly disgusted with the filth I was watching, and typed 'porn addiction' into Google. This was about the third site I found, the most active, and the only one without a religious affiliation.
I did a search on google, trying to find somewhere I can outlet thoughts, or read things that others were going through without having to have a 12 step program. Glad I found you.
I'm just glad that I did. When I had the active PA/SA in my life I was on a couple of different sites, but I was hoping to find something better and I did.... this one. Too many of the others have "operator ego issues", too much organized religion affiliations, and/or tied into marketing. Unlike many of the other resources I didn't find too many things which pushed me away. I liked that most of all. ; )
This one was incredibly refreshing in its sincerity, openness and honesty without having ulterior motives or too inherent a need to "blame the victim".... not that most of the others recognize when they do that.
I just found you guys on MySpace, too!
That was a happy surprise.