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Congratulations on mod!!! I know you will do great things for the people here!!!

hi abbie, as a wife to a pa can you give me any advice on helping my wife understand more about my internet pa thanks

How are you Abbie?

I want to Thank you Abbie, you have very resourceful things to say.I talked to him again tonight about the website and he said maybe he'll look at it with me. We'll see maybe he will. We actually got in an argument tonught because I was looking through his phone and he got quite pissed. He said his friends think it's messed up that I look through his stuff. And he's probably right, I should not look through his things and I never did until I became suspicious and I felt I was beginning to question my trust in him.I don't believe he's cheated on me, but I question him sometimes( i.e. the letter I found that he e-mailed to the fetish model,I recently found a hot pink post it with the women's name "Stella" on it obviously a women's handwriting and her work hours. I originally thought it was a stripper but he promises it's just some girl he met at work who ordered ferniture and she's just a bartender at a local bar? Then theres the 1 mysterious phone number that appeared in his phone-no name just the letter"S" under his contacts. I actually called the # and I got some voicemail of a women named Bridget,He swears it's a wrong # and it was supposed to be this guys from work # that he must have entered wrong on his phone.
Gosh actually reading what I just wrote, I feel rather pathetic!Am I really one of those women I've dreaded being-am I really falling for this crap? I guess I am because I truly believe he hasn't cheated.
With that said he's in the garage working on his motorcycle and I'm in bed on the computer, miles and miles away.I just don'y understand why he gets so upset if I check his phone or email if he has nothing to hide? He can check my phone or email whenever he wants it would'nt bother me a bit, I have nothing to hide from him? I just don't understand................

Hang in there girl and welcome to the site. I know that even if we can't all have pa's that find recovery, that with each other we will be just fine with or without them. Peace~Crys