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Default 07-02-2008, 01:15 PM
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Here is another useful filter/accountability program that installs on your computer and sends weekly or daily reports to your accountability partner's email. I had this installed on my laptop but I sold that laptop and never installed it on my new one since my accountability partner moved out of the area and didn't feel like paying for it anymore. If I still had it I wouldn't be in this trap now with P.
   
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Lightbulb 07-10-2008, 09:12 PM
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Apparently K9 is good and you have a few options when it comes to password protection. Here goes:

1. If you have someone you talk to about your problem, then get them to hold onto the password, make sure its super-complicated as Vorlan says and then set it up on your pc/laptop.

2. If you don't have anybody you can talk to about your problem, then do as above, but lose the password. scramble some letters and numbers together in a text file like : dvfvf76v7f7dv7fv7fvgcbsndnfedc and then use this as the password, then once your filter is in place you cannot get into it again, without the password

Note : The backdoor is the email address/logon and password you used on the website to get the software, make sure these are scrambled as above like dcndfncdncdjcdcdc989d8uc@hotmail.com.

I have Cyber Patrol on both my Laptop and PC setup like this, only way out is to wipe the machine and re-install (a bit extreme). The other way out is to use a virtual machine installation and then use that, but you have to install an operating system. These are maybe things that some may not have thought of, but if your aware then its better to know your triggers and vunerabilities so you can be prepared for them. Once I though about VM's I relapse because I could. Now I have no way to do it.

Good luck guys, hope that helps.
PS : Don't there is such a thing as an MB filter...yet!
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Default 07-15-2008, 11:50 PM
I cannot reccommend SpectorSoft Pro enough! It really is the complete package and you can even play a video of screen activity. It captures keystrokes, facebook info with breakdowns, chat software conversations, changes made to files, files uploaded/downloaded, every single activity.

It captures every single move made on a pc (you can install it on up to 2 computers), and is a great deterrent. It is one of the most expensive, I paid $99 for it, well actually I made my husband pay (his addiction right?), but it has been worth every penny.

Unfortunately, it does not extend to digital TV, satellite TV, PlayStation 3/XBox/Wii, magazines, newspapers etc (I wish), so be aware that the PA will probably try other avenues, but at least you know you won't find any P on the computer that you yourself may have to use - one of things I hate about my husband's PA.

You can also use it keep track of what your teenagers/young children are doing online.

Any questions about this software, feel free to message me, I've been using it for a loooong time.

PS It also runs in stealth mode (does not show up in processes, running apps, program lists etc), I found that not telling my husband the name of the software helped him not to try and crack it!
   
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Default 07-18-2008, 03:08 AM
No one using Linux on these forums? *sheesh* Hehe, ask cause if you know linux then you know that it's not to difficult to get around things in the heat of a 'moment'. Any advice would be nice.

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Default 07-23-2008, 11:41 AM
Are you using a router? If so, ban all P from there.
   
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Arrow LINUX Web Filtering - 07-23-2008, 02:10 PM
Hope this helps.
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Taken from Linux.com
Linux.com :: A parent's guide to Linux Web filtering


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The only software you need to set up parental filters under GNU/Linux is iptables, DansGuardian, and Squid.


DansGuardian is the actual filtering software. It supports phrase matching, which allow you to block out Web sites that contain certain phrases or words; PICS filtering, which blocks content that's been labeled as possibly objectionable material by the creator of the Web site; URL filtering, to block content from specific sites that are known to contain offensive material; and blacklists, or lists of sites that contain content you want to block. Blacklists usually come from third parties, though you can create and maintain your own.
Squid is a Web proxy server that acts as a middleman between your computer and the Internet. You need a proxy server because DansGuardian isn't able to fetch Web pages by itself. We'll configure Squid as a transparent proxy, meaning we'll hijack network traffic and redirect it to a new destination -- our filter program, in this case -- without the need for the user to know that it is happening.
Most modern distribution have packaged versions of Squid and DansGuardian available. If yours doesn't then you will need to install them from source code. Both the Squid and DansGuardian Web sites have complete instructions for how to compile and install the programs from source.
Iptables is the firewall management tool used with the 2.4.x and higher kernels. Most modern distributions provide iptables. If yours doesn't, you will need to compile a new kernel and enable iptables, which is beyond the scope of this article (and probably beyond the abilities of most parents). You'd probably be better off upgrading to a newer Linux distribution.


Configuring Squid
The default location for the Squid configuration file on most systems is /etc/squid/squid.conf. While most of the default settings for Squid are all right for our usage, you will need to edit the configuration file just a bit.
You will need to become the root user in order to make the changes and issue the commands shown in this article. You can do this by either logging in as root or with the su command.
Add or edit the following line to have Squid listen only on the loopback device on port 3128. This will cause Squid to act only as a proxy server for this computer and assigns it a specific port number to listen on:
http_port 127.0.0.1:3128
To configure Squid as a transparent proxy, add the following lines to squid.conf:
httpd_accel_host virtual
httpd_accel_port 80
httpd_accel_with_proxy on
httpd_accel_uses_host_header on Your system should have created a user and a group named squid when you installed Squid. If it didn't, you should create them yourself by using the following two commands from the command line:
groupadd -r squid
useradd -g squid -d /var/spool/squid -s /bin/false -r squid
Since Squid is normally started by the system and run as root, you need to add the next two lines to /etc/squid/squid.conf in order to make Squid run with squid's user and group IDs:
cache_effective_user squid
cache_effective_group squid We will later use this to identify Squid to our firewall. Then we will allow the user squid to access the Internet while we redirect all other Web traffic through our filter.


Configuring DansGuardian
Our next step is to configure DansGuardian. The default location, on most systems, for the configuration files is /etc/dansguardian/dansguardian.conf. Once again, most of the default values are fine, but we need to make a few changes.
First, add or edit the following line to make the filter use HTML templates, which are static Web pages that our filter will use to display the "Access Denied" page instead of the inappropriate sites. Using HTML templates keeps us from having to set up a Web server to display the "Access Denied" information.
reportinglevel = 3
Next, add or edit the following lines to make DansGuardian listen on the loopback address and port 8080:
filterip = 127.0.0.1
filterport = 8080 Add or edit the following line to tell DansGuardian which address and port that Squid is listening on. This enables our filter to fetch the requested Web content through the proxy.
proxyip = 127.0.0.1
proxyport = 3128 Again, to keep your filter from running as root you need to change the user that it will run as. For simplicity, we will reuse the user and group that we previously set up for Squid. Add or edit the following to make DansGuardian run with UID and GID of squid:
daemonuser = 'squid'
daemongroup = 'squid' While DansGuardian provides an excellent filter all by itself, you may want to exercise further control over the Web filtering by editing the other files in the /etc/dansguardian directory that contain external blacklists. Blacklists from squidGuard and URLBlacklist work perfectly with DansGuardian. Each file contains a brief explanation for its contents to make configuration easier.


Putting it in action
Once you have Squid and DansGuardian set up, the final step is to implement a transparent proxy using iptables. Use the following commands at the command line to add rules to the firewall to allow the user squid to access both the Internet and the Squid proxy we set up.
iptables -t nat -A OUTPUT -p tcp --dport 80 -m owner --uid-owner squid -j ACCEPT
iptables -t nat -A OUTPUT -p tcp --dport 3128 -m owner --uid-owner squid -j ACCEPT
If you want a user to be exempt from filtering -- a parent, for example -- issue the following command. Replace EXEMPT_USER with the username that you wish to exempt from filtering:
iptables -t nat -A OUTPUT -p tcp --dport 80 -m owner --uid-owner EXEMPT_USER -j ACCEPT
The next command redirects Internet traffic from all users, other than squid and any exempt users, to the filter on port 8080:
iptables -t nat -A OUTPUT -p tcp --dport 80 -j REDIRECT --to-ports 8080
Since we have a proxy server set up, a user could configure a Web browser to bypass the filter and access the proxy directly. The Squid proxy is listening for requests from the computer, and it doesn't care which user sends the request. We could set up our firewall to deny all access to the proxy except from our filter, but let's be a little sneakier. Let's set it up so that direct requests to the Squid proxy server, except from our filter, get redirected through the filter. To do this, use the following command:
iptables -t nat -A OUTPUT -p tcp --dport 3128 -j REDIRECT --to-ports 8080
Some systems, such as MandrakeLinux, utilize an application called Shorewall to manage firewall rules. For these systems, place the above firewall rules in /etc/shorewall/start, to use the filtering when Shorewall starts, and in /etc/shorewall/stop, to make them stick if you should stop Shorewall for some reason. To implement the new rules simply restart Shorewall using the following command:
service shorewall restart
For systems using Shorewall, your firewall rules are set. For all other systems, you'll need to perform the next two steps in order to get the new firewall rules started at boot time. Issue the following command to save your firewall rules:
iptables-save > /etc/sysconfig/iptables
Now issue the following to make sure iptables is started at boot time and to start the iptables firewall:
chkconfig iptables on
service iptables restart

You may also need to make sure that DansGuardian and Squid get started at boot by using the following two commands:

chkconfig squid on
chkconfig dansguardian on
To get the filtering started, you can now enter the following commands:
service squid restart
service dansguardian restart


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Default 07-24-2008, 12:50 PM
There's also this thread on linux accountability software


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Default P filters? - 09-01-2008, 07:48 PM
I was checking the list of filters on this website and a few from google, but wanted to know if anyone out there knows of a free P filter.

It is just me living here, and after a recent relapse, I want to go ahead and cut out any temptation to this one website.
I figure I should take the step now since I am having a good day, or else when Im having a slump day, I will do everything in my power to talk myself out of blocking the website.

any ideas or suggestions would be great!
   
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Default 09-02-2008, 01:05 AM
We use Open DNS You set up what type of websites that you want it to filter. It is free and does a great job! You could ask someone else to house the password. I have the password for my husband.

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Default 09-02-2008, 02:09 AM
Thanks! a ton

I just set up OpenDNS and its working like a charm.
This is great for anyone who Needs to still have a computer and internet, without the temptations attached!!!
   
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