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    A forum for anyone adversely affected by the use of pornography - addicts, partners, family members, and friends.

    Welcome to our online community of support for men and women affected by pornography addiction. We are here to give you a space to communicate with others about this addiction, be it as an addict or as a partner/family member to one. Here, you are not alone. Here, you will find support and can reach out to others who are affected by pornography addiction. What we all share is a commitment to grow as human beings and bring a new light into our lives. Welcome!

    You can start by reading some of our articles, or read some of the entries by members in our forum. To be able to post and read all of the posts here you will have to become a member. Learn a bit more about our mission, who we are, and the rules of TTF by reading our about us page.

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    Published on 10-16-2014 01:27 AM
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    This is a wonderful post originally posted by our member WisingUpSlowlsy to another partner of a PA, Marion.
    by Published on 09-28-2014 03:31 PM
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    This is an assignment that was given to me by my councillor. What would I tell my teenage son about porn?

    It ...

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