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    Welcome to our online community of support for men and women affected by pornography addiction. We are here to give you a space to communicate with others about this addiction, be it as an addict or as a partner/family member to one. Here, you are not alone. Here, you will find support and can reach out to others who are on the same path as you. What we all share is a commitment to grow as human beings and bring a new light into our lives. Welcome!

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    I see so many of my fellow PAs struggling along trying to make sense of exactly what is needed to direct them in a direction that ...

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