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    Welcome to our online community of support for men and women affected by pornography addiction. We are here to give you a space to communicate with others about this addiction, be it as an addict or as a partner/family member to one. Here, you are not alone. Here, you will find support and can reach out to others who are on the same path as you. What we all share is a commitment to grow as human beings and bring a new light into our lives. Welcome!

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    by Published on 07-23-2014 06:46 PM
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    Early in our healing journeys as partners of a person with a P addiction, we may hear or read the statement “that's just ...
    Published on 02-27-2014 04:33 PM
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    This wonderful post was written by our member Mac.

    I see so many of my fellow PA’s struggling along trying to make sense of exactly what is needed to direct them in a direction that ...

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    100 Days Goal

    How after just less than a days time do I write that and now must report at Day 0.

    rouby Yesterday, 11:35 PM Go to last post

    Still Trying to beat it

    Day 0.

    I've decided to reset my counter today. I feel as if I'm changing my rules and not being honest with myself. I keep skirting the edge

    still_trying94 Yesterday, 08:43 PM Go to last post

    The long struggle continues...

    Thank you everyone for your wishes and insights.

    Boy are all hitting pretty hard and straight to the point. You are all so right of course.

    simon77 Yesterday, 04:17 PM Go to last post

    Committed to my freedom

    Good to hear from you. I hope you can stay on the clean path after all this time of working on it. I feel exactly the same you do. I've been struggling

    simon77 Yesterday, 04:07 PM Go to last post

    100 Days Goal

    Good for you ABC. Keep it up!

    I'm still doing well too Corianton. Absolutely 100% clean for the last while and THAT'S what I need to keep

    simon77 Yesterday, 04:05 PM Go to last post