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    Welcome to our online community of support for men and women affected by pornography addiction. We are here to give you a space to communicate with others about this addiction, be it as an addict or as a partner/family member to one. Here, you are not alone. Here, you will find support and can reach out to others who are affected by pornography addiction. What we all share is a commitment to grow as human beings and bring a new light into our lives. Welcome!

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    by Published on 12-08-2014 01:53 AM
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    Feels like an important post given that it is my 5000th post on TTF.
    Oh my, that is actually a little scary in itself! ...
    Published on 10-16-2014 01:27 AM
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    This is a wonderful post originally posted by our member WisingUpSlowlsy to another partner of a PA, Marion.
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