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    Thread: One year

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      Default One year

      One year ago today, I confronted Artguy about his addiction.

      One year ago today, he started down the path to a new life P-free and we started down a path to rebuild our marriage and our lives together.

      It's been a year. One year clean for him, no relapses. No falling down. Stumbles along the way? Yes. But nothing more serious than a skinned knee.

      It's been a year. One year of emotional rollar coasters, emotional vomit, learning a lot about myself, and learning to let go. Stumbles along the way? Yes. But nothing more serious than a chipped nail.

      365 days.

      No going back now.

      Peace to all,
      ~C~


      "Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.” ~ Unknown

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      Congrats, you two! You're an inspiration to all of us new ones-- this really can be done!!
      You, yes YOU, whether a PA, a SA, or a SO, are a person of infinite worth and value. You have power far beyond what you know, and strength in abundance. You might not feel like it right now.... but it's true.

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      After what we went through this year, I firmly believe that there is nothing we can't achieve together! ^:)^

      Most importantly, by working together, our children will grow up understanding what it is like to live in a home with two loving parents.

      And... the cycle of PA has stopped.

      Quote Originally Posted by artguy34 View Post
      first comes 30 days, then 60 etc... (Relapse Is Not an Option)

      “Doing the right thing isn't something special. It's the minimum.
      It’s where we start each morning, not where we try to end up one day in the future.”


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      Congratulations to both of you! You are truly an inspiration to all of us here! You have shown us all that with hard work and committment, it can be done and done well! Thank you for that and for all that you do for the membership here!
      Awesome, awesome, awesome!
      I hope you find a special way to celebrate your love for each other!
      Jenn

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      Oh...my heartfelt CONGRATULATIONS to you both! Jenn and Sonomette said it above - and I'll "third" it...the two of you really are an inspiration to us all!

      You help spread hope...and I thank you for that!

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      Grats to both of you (yes I can not spell) as I have said before I hope in another year to be where you are now.^:)^ >:D< =D>

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      I just wanted to say I am so Happy for the both of you!!!! I really am!
      ~~Hopeful

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      Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
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      Congratulations! Remember this success wil transfer into other parts of your life!

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      Default Sorry for the delay...

      Happy one year anniversary...meant to post it yesterday!

      I trust you both were able to have a nice day/evening together.

      We are so thankful that you both are with us (and TTF) to lead us to the happier/healthier path...true inspirations to all.

      Cheers!!!<:-P

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      Congrats and thanks for being here! you inspire us all.

      Boris
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