[Dominus]

If you caught your husband in bed with another woman you would presumably go nuts, well he is in a sense with these women on the screen, make it crystal clear that it is completely unnaceptable, tell him your going to smash the screen if he doesnt get off it now. If he's up late on the computer after you've gone to bed he probably looking at porn - even if you go in and it appears he's not as a mouse finger is pretty fast when the stairs creak. Your husband may try to talk you around, but this has to be non negotiable. My guess is he is probably quite distraught about it internally. please understand that this is really tough for us though, we are like the 'crack babies' of this sex saturated society, we didnt mean to become porn addicts. It is embarrasing to admit, or talk about it - especially for men. Ive been through the trying to convince my wife its all normal, healthy adult lines - its baloney. My body and my mind say I want the porn, but in my heart I know it has to stop and long term I welcome any help keep me away from it.