[Glass_of_water]

Jasmine, your three points are the three things that should have alerted me earlier. They were all present, I just didn't listen to my gut like FM said.

My gut told me early on, and I didn't listen, even with all the three points Jasmine raised occurring, I still didn't listen to my gut.

I didn't actually face what was going on until my husband slipped up and I found evidence on his computer.