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06-12-2008, 09:23 PM
Step 1: Write a letter / E-mail to your H / bf and explain in explicit detail how his PA is affecting him, you and your relationship. The letter needs to state that you will support him should he wish to change. But it must be clear that you can no longer accept being second to P.
Step 2: Make sure he uses TTF. If you do not see any changes in him within 2 weeks, or he still has not realised the affects of P. Re-read last sentence of step 1 and act on it.
Step 3: Respect yourself for who you are, and not what someone else wants you to be. Muster the strength and confidence in yourself to act out on what you believe you deserve.
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Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. Martin Luther King Jr My Journey started here My Journal: The Truth is Painful, But Required
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