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06-12-2008, 01:56 PM
1. You are always the one to initiate sex. Pornography distorts a man's sex drive, often leading him away from normal sex. Use your intuition. If something seems abnormal or different about your partner's sexual performance, then it is reasonable to be suspicious. In my experience, I noticed, at times, an enormous gap in our sex life, where it seemed that I was always the initiator, and sex was much less frequent than usual. However, sex drive is frustratingly variable for everyone, so again, use your intuition.
2. Erectile dysfunction is not uncommon among pornography addicts. Even pornography addicts that are relatively young may experience these difficulties. Pornography trains men to reach sexual climax differently than normal sex, and after a while, they become desensitized to normal stimulation.
3. Frequently deleted browsing or internet history. There is being safe with sensitive information... and then there is being addicted to pornography. If, every so often, you notice he has cleared his history, ask yourself why. Many people clear their private data to protect sensitive information, but only so often. Frequent cleared history, or software that clears data, is a major red flag.
We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope.
-Martin Luther King, Jr.
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