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06-10-2008, 08:39 AM
I just want to give my small experience on this because I have tried going without P both with and without MB. First time I stopped looking at P I did MB and I think that was ok. At first my MB fantasies where highly inspired by P. But as time went on they became more normal. For me P is definetly much more destructive than MB.
This time around I hardly do any MB and I havn't had an orgasm for close to 6 weeks. I have had ups and downs but in general I have felt better about myself than I've done in a long time. I don't get nervous socially as easy, I stand up for myself much more, I am more positive. I do not know if most of this is because I quit MB but it feels like the effect of quitting p was enlarged by also quitting MB. I don't know if it is going to be possible to go without MB or sx for a very long time but for now it feels good.
"If guys think that a girl who allows P into a relationship is the greatest gift to man, then girls think that a man who doesn't need P and is satisfied with her is the greatest gift to woman." - Jasmine "Stop looking for romance, stop looking for sx, start looking at women, all women as potential friends" - Tipple Downs
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