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Originally Posted by clog  Dane,
Good to have you on the forum. We'll all support you in your efforts to overcome your addiction.
I wanted to comment on your statement that you don't see anything wrong with the porn you view. Let me try a few things on you:
- Click on the 'resources' tab of this website and have a good look at the anti-porn activism websites mentioned. Yes, I also thought they were written by a bunch of zealots and prudes initially. Look into it. Even those seemingly innocent nude and nearly-nude SC images: what proportion of the women you look at do you think posed entirely out of their own free will and were comfortable and happy with it? How many were driven by desperation for money? How many are addicts and needed the money to get their next fix? How many were talked into this 'modeling' by abusive boyfriends or parents? All those girlfriend pictures around - how many of those women do you think would have agreed to pose if they'd known the shots were going to be published on the internet? How many of the boyfriends actually posted these pictures as an act of revenge and humiliation?
- Think of girls and women close to you: your wife, your sisters, your daughters, posing for these pictures. Think of the thousands of men staring at their pictures, lusting after their bodies, MB'ing. You OK with that image? The women you look at are other people's sisters, daughters, wives.
- Read the stories on this forum. Look what PA has done to people's lives, relationships, careers. Read the partners' forum. Pay attention to the deep, deep hurt partners are feeling. Are your 'innocent' pictures still OK?
It also sounds to me like your RLS is a bit of an excuse for the use of P. The reason MB doesn't come to a conclusion without P for you is probably twofold. One: you're sxually exhausted. Two: your mind is set in its ways. I promise - once you're off P and a daily MB habit for a couple of weeks, things will change drastically. You will have far more sxual energy and will appreciate sx with your wife (or with yourself if you must) much more rewarding.
Hope this helps.
Clog. |
Dude... Thanks
I almost started crying here... It's so true...
Thank you so much!!
Thank you, all of you guys!
I don't have the time to wright much now, have to go. But I will try to
step by daily!
Thank you again for caring!