[TbonePlyr]

Even though I am a member of the opposite gender I can understand how you feel. Thank you by the way for this post. I certainly am benefiting from learning the way the other mind works and thinks.

All of your fears and concerns are legitimate and I believe that they can be resolved with time. It is just up to you and your husband.

I have heard it can be tricky if the wife finds out. What a devistating blow!! Men and Women think differently. But you seem to have the right attitude and approach. You seem to want to understand and not criticize but at the same time having zero tolerance for this pathology. Forgiveness is a big word. Your plight is a difficult one. Maybe just as difficult as the man who is battling this beast.

You ask some hard questions. They will be answered between you and your husband I am sure.

I believe you could make a case that most of the females in that industry are not happy at all. They are into drugs and even perfer the same sex because of the brutality of the industry. But at the same time, they started out desiring to be in that industry. The "almighty" dollar (which aint worth much these days) is what drives them to do what they are doing to you. Yes.. I said to you. They have a part in this and I think you know that from your post. I just cant understand how they could do that. What they do, with whom they do it and with what at times... They collect the dough... and we (both genders including the children) suffer. Do they really understand what they are doing to society? Do they care? Or do they, just like any other greeeeeeedddyyyyyy, slimmy money grubbing hack out there, justify their destructive actions as there "rights" and "freedoms?" The actions of so few... DESTROYING THE LIVES OF SO MANY!

I AM MAD.