[Justme]

Wow guys, everything you both have talked about makes sense. Like you Dominus, I too have been very shallow when it comes to looking at woman. I would tend to look at woman in the same way as I would look at woman in P. I would look at real people and just judge them so harsely. I would be thinking, ok you are pretty but your legs are too short, or you have a great butt but if only your boobs were a bit bigger youd be great etc etc. I totally didnt realize or think there was any connection to my way of thinking and P. But when I surf P thats all I am doing. I am surfing the web judging the girls and i would stop until I found one that I thought was perfect and that would then be the one I would MS over.

But it did make me feel like not a very nice person when i would find myself judging girls in real life. I would look at them and try and model them in my head until I decided what would make them look perfect. How shallow is that! P just created this false image of what I though was good enough. And it would just so stop allowing me from appreciating the beauty of normal people. All i found myself doing all day was judging peoples looks and coming up with ways to decide what would make them perfect.
Thank you sooo much for your insight into this.

i think the same issue would cause my erection problems becaue instead of just enjoying the beauty of a womans naked body i would find myself judging her and critiqing her imperfection. I have to say i have noticed over the last few days that i have been admiring my girlfriends naked body so much more lately. And she was always totally gorgeous but yet i would still always find myself looking at her and thinking, ummmm, if only your butt was a little firmer, if only your nipples were a little bigger etc etc. And i would also find myself disconnected from her.

And what you said showmelove - The better you know a woman the better it is to fantasize about her IMO, because then you include more of what is her in that fantazy. I like that thought!!! And i also liked what you said about starting to see girls for their personality instead of just a fantasy object.

Thanks for sharing your thought (-:

Cheers