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06-02-2008, 04:02 PM
Glass (for short),
I know that your husband has admitted to the problem and is trying, but being sorry in life doesn't guarantee forgiveness from anyone. It's a cold lesson to learn, but true. It's like when you find out your friend betrayed you, but decided to come clean because of an attack of conscience. When you don't forgive them, they say, "But I was honest with you? Doesn't it account for anything?" You are not a light switch. It takes time for him to earn your trust again because it took time to lose it. He is walking on eggshells right now, and will probably have to do it for awhile. Only you know where the end of the line is, but remember that you will be okay regardless of what happens.
Mine has still not admitted to a problem, but he did come to our bed last night (trying to prove a point, don't know). I wasn't sleepy and went into the second bedroom and fell asleep there.
Off to class! Keep your head up and keep us posted. |