[cyberpunk]

I know what you mean about not wanting sex to be your life. At some point in my life I want to have a healthy sexual relationship with a woman I love, however, right now it feels like I live just for sexual gratification. There is so much more to life and love then just sex but it occupies so much of my time and thoughts that I feel crippled by it. I truly want to control my sexual desires and not have them control me.