[Luke]

Hi Dave42,

I'm new on this site, and I'm responding to your post because I am gay, and I've recently decided that I want to quit P.

I've read through all these replies and it's a really interesting thread. I think it is worth considering that many gay people have different attitudes towards and experiences of P than straight people.

I presume that in many straight relationships, a man would not discuss P with his partner, and would hide the fact that he used it. In my experience of gay relationships, that's not the case, and it's easy to see why. If both partners are men, and men tend to use P more, there's more chance it would be discussed. Plus both partners would want to watch the similar stuff. Anyway, I've realised I'm better off without it, and I am determined to quit.



I also wanted to respond to things other people have said:

Dave42 - your joke totally cracked me up!

bananaman - Spot on. Anyone who disagrees with you just doesn't know the facts!

Valjean77 - Thanks for your post. It is so refreshing to hear from Christians who are supportive of gay people. I know there must be many such people, but so often the message that I get from Christians is negative.



By the way, why does everyone on these forums write 'P' instead of the full word? I've just copied everyone else, but are we meant to do that?